Im seventeen and ive only had sex 3 times with the same boy...
we were both virgins.
well the first time it hurt but i assumed that was because i was a virgin. but the weird thing is i didnt bleed and actually i havent...
then the second time it still hurt and we used a condom id heard my sister talking about our family being allergic to because we cant use the lube in it. i got a really bad itch down there i just got the itch medicine and it seemed to be fine. then tonight we had sex again and not only did it hurt again but i also got pains in my lower stomach on the left and right side when he was going in deep not like sharp pains but like idk they felt like presure pains not like cramps but a little stronger than gas pains. i cant tell my family about this because i dont know how theyd react to me having sex. but idk wat to do its kinda freaking me out. and it hasnt been really enjoyable. idk if thats just because i am nervous and in a cramped space or what. please help. idk if i can go to the doctor because i dont want my mom to know and i dont want her to get the insurance papers. and the new doctor that my mother got me is not very good and idk what would happen if i went there again please help!!!
-Jasmine R.
we were both virgins.
well the first time it hurt but i assumed that was because i was a virgin. but the weird thing is i didnt bleed and actually i havent...
then the second time it still hurt and we used a condom id heard my sister talking about our family being allergic to because we cant use the lube in it. i got a really bad itch down there i just got the itch medicine and it seemed to be fine. then tonight we had sex again and not only did it hurt again but i also got pains in my lower stomach on the left and right side when he was going in deep not like sharp pains but like idk they felt like presure pains not like cramps but a little stronger than gas pains. i cant tell my family about this because i dont know how theyd react to me having sex. but idk wat to do its kinda freaking me out. and it hasnt been really enjoyable. idk if thats just because i am nervous and in a cramped space or what. please help. idk if i can go to the doctor because i dont want my mom to know and i dont want her to get the insurance papers. and the new doctor that my mother got me is not very good and idk what would happen if i went there again please help!!!
-Jasmine R.