sex problems, its not pleasurable?

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Hi, really after some advice because its really getting to me and my bf. for over a year now we have been having sex. I have never been able to orgasm through masturbation or through intercourse.
Today was the longest period we had 'done it' before, he lasted about 20 mins and still didnt cum. At first he was kissing me alot and fingering me like normal but i didnt feel any pleasure out of it. We tried loads of positions including missionary, me on top, me laying on my stomach and him penetrating from on top, side ways, doggy, standing up with one leg up and him holding me, and when he first penetrates me it is really really painful. What does this mean? How can i get pleasure from it and maybe even orgasm? were both loosing interest because of it i think, just seems like a thing for him to get pleasure but i want it to feel good too.

any advice greatly recieved

thank you
 
You could be tense. You could be small and that is why it is hurting.

One tip you have to feel beautiful. Stop worrying and perhaps you will relax more.

You can use creams to help lubrication. Vaseline is greasy but works.
 
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