Sex On the Same Night U Met Him?

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ok I already know i'm a slut so spare me that comment. I met this guy a couple nights ago at a club with my friends. we talked alone for hours and i wear i was in love within an hour of us talking. i ended up going home with him and i lost my virginity but i feel like i did something really wrong. i'm extremeley happy and he's my bf now but i feel like maybe we went too fast and the whole sex thing will make him think he owns me cuz he was my first time and it might get a little out of control. If i've had sex with him, the only other thing he would stay with me for is if he thinks he wants to marry me....help?(i'm 20)
 
I commend you on making it to 20 a virgin but then you wasted it on a dumb mistake you could have made earlier in life. Now that is out of the way. Don't have sex every time you guys hang out. Make it once a week and see if he is okay with that. Sex is a natural part of relationships.
 
This is a catch 20/20 situation. Please don't believe that your a slut. It's not about what you do but how you do it and why you do it. Cuz if you want you can call me a slut too.

Some guys may act like they own you or just keep coming back for the honey. Sometimes in situations like this you don't know if he's coming back for you or the honey. Whatever happens, you live and you learn.
Good luck to love, happiness, and fun!
 
your first time is suppose to be with someone special who really loves you, but you gave it to a guy you met for a few hours ... if anything happens in the relationship you will end up hurting more than him simply because sex can easily get you attached to someone, especially if he's your first guy.
 
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