sex & lies Girlfriend lying !!?

[2k7!]

Ok my new girlfriend & i are in a long distance relationship about (70) miles so we text alot & every time we bring up sex she always tells me these *Wonderful Freaky Sexy Things She wants to Do* but when we do have sex she does nothing!. & If i attempt to try something she so highly preached about she doesn't like it.. I go rough - She say's slow down! - I go down - she goes down only when she feels like it - & its always No to this position no to that.. etc.. Why is she lying in text if she really doesn't wanna do em in real life ?!?! I'm starting to think that because of that she's ...fake... & that she's just telling me what i want to hear. & if that's true. Could she be doing that for everything else she tells me..??? she say's doesn't flirt blah blah ..etc We go to different schools & only see each other twice a month maybe. Im 19 she's 17

 

[Kim]

Well just because of the age difference, it kind of seems like she is just telling you what you want to hear because she probably feels like you expect too much out of her. I'm not saying this is your fault, I'm just saying that she probably automatically feels pressured just because of the age difference. If I were you, I would just ask her why she says things like that but doesn't actually want to do them. Then explain to her that you don't expect those things, you just thought that she wanted to since she's the one that said it. Only say that if you mean it though; If you do expect that out of her then I would reconsider. Not everybody is ready for those things, even at 17. Maybe she's just telling you those things to show you that she thinks about you and still likes you even though you guys are apart