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Jessica G
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My husband and I will be married for 2 years next month. In the beginning sex wasn't an issue. Over time, I have become unattracted to him sexually. I never want to have sex and when we do it hurts to the point of where I want to cry for the first 5 minutes or so. He is VERY large and I am a very small person. I never ever want to have sex and only do it when I feel I have no choice because he deserves it. I have tried oral but he isn't the fasest and after 15 minutes or so my face just can't take it anymore because once again, I am tiny and he is very large. I just don't know what to do. Neither one of us are happy. I am not because I can't please him and he is not because he feels neglected sexually. We are on the edge of divorce and I just don't know what else to do. Should we call it quits because it seems like the sexual connection will just never be there. I know sex isn't every thing but it is a big deal to both of us so please don't tell us how there are other things to make us happy. Thanks for any advice.