Sex for the first time?

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I am married and my husband and I are unable to have sex cause of the pain I feel. I am a virgin. I was seeing a counsellor, but don't beleive it helped. I have just ordered xylocaine numbing cream, do u beleive this would help?? And how I should apply it? Any help will be great
 
well, honestly. some girls are born with a narrow vagina. for example it took my boyfriend and i several attempts before it became even ok for me to go through with it. it took me like 8 to 9 times. lubrication also helped a lot. you also have to relax all your muscles down there in order for him to slip in easier. don't lose hope! it'll feel good after plenty of tries. good luck
 
what kind of pain exactly? you said you were seeing a counselor, is it emotional pain? If it is not emotional but rather physical, then it could be a size issue. Penises come in many sizes, and so do vaginas. Perhaps you should have a gynecologist examine you if it is physical. I would like to help more, but there is not much detail to work with here. Perhaps if you asked the question again with more details a better rounded response could be given.
 
Sex can often hurt girls, and almost always does on the first time.

Unless it's exceptionally strong, you'll have to deal with it eventually. Maybe take a painkiller half an hour before? Could help a little...

Good luck, and congrats on getting married :)
 
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