sex for the first time?

[Rachael W]

he wasn't a virgin, but i was.
and it reallyyy hurt at first, and i didnt think it was going to work haha.

and then it didn't last very long.
about 5 minutes?
is that normal considering im a virgin so i was just lying there? >.<
What does it mean that he finnished quickly? :/
I dont know what to think about it all >.<


(were both 16, which is the legal age in the UK, and were in a long term relationship)

 

[Jillann?]

Thats average for most young guys. if they get off before hand than they can last a little longer. it depends on the situation and the atmosphere. It always hurts at first, it will get better and so will you. He was probably excited about taking your virginity.

 

[wtfkrss]

5 minutes is okay. I mean, he'll get tired at some point. Usually in a good relationship it lasts 30 minutes though. Try to take some control next time and don't just lay there.