Alright. This might seem like a strange scenario. I was at my friend's cottage with 11 other friends last week over March Break. So there was needless to say drinking involved. During the first two nights i could catch the feeling that my long time friend Kurt was hitting on me, and I liked it. So we flirted back and forth. Well the third night we ended up making out then doing stuff (fingering,blow job) but again we were both drunk. Then the night after that we again did those things (for lack of condoms) and he ened up coming in in a few hours later to say goodnight and ending up sleeping in my bed. And we did things again the 3rd night, this time we were both sober (well me more or less) and we decided we'd be sex buddies.
Since we got back we haven't really spoken, I know my reason is because I'm nervous. But he did add me on msn which I saw as a symbol to mean that he wants to talk.
So my question is, should I be trying to get him alone and talk to him or will that be coming on too strong. Or just forget and chalk in up to a fling? (even though I don't want a relationship, just more flings.)