Sex and relationship question!?

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I've been with this guy for a little over a year. He's 35. I'm28. I love him dearly. I know he loves me and we have a great time together, alot in common. (We even play video games, call of duty, football) all kinds of things together. The sex was great in the beginning. Now...well...it just SUCKS. No passion. No nothing. I mean...its just BLAND. I've talked and talked and talked about it. He says he can't help he's older and its not the most important thing. Then he kinda makes me feel guilty saying that shouldn't be the most important thing in our relationship. Its not...but I just want some passion. I mean...its really, really BLAND. Do I leave him over this? I just want some passion. I feel like we're just friends that cuddle each other at night or kiss each other goodbye.... Give me some opinions. Would you leave over this?
 
does he have any extreme work stress he does not share?

is his job at risk?

is he happy?

ask him to open up!
 
You should take charge here and put things in motion to spice things up. I'm sure he will be responsive.

If not, then maybe you should suggest that he get checked out by his doctor just to make sure there are no health issues. Although 35 would be sort of on the young side for E.D. problems.

Good luck!

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You need to tap into his secret fantasies. Or hold out for a little while and let him get more needy. Thirty five is hardly old. At thirty five I was dating a 19 year old and we rarely had sex without doing some serious damage--not to ourselves, but furniture always had cause to worry about us! That 19 year old and I were a couple for the next 24 years and the passion was still there at 43 and 58!
 
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