I am sorry this is a bit long, but theres so much more to the story but heres a bit of it.
My boyfriends brothers girlfriend was my friend at one time. We partied, smoked weed, got in trouble together. Then I met her boyfriends brother and we connected right away, fell in love. It was a different type of love than what my old friend has with my boyfriends brother. I didn't feel the need for drugs anymore, or "partying" I felt the need to grow and be happy with who I am with still my wonderful boyfriend. My old friend however enables drugs and alcohol in her boyfriends life and they fight and they make up, cheating has occurred with them as well - so It's just drama! and I didn't settle for it. I however changed for the better and so did my boyfriend and now everybody thinks it's the end of the world that he has a new job and gets paid more & he doesn't smoke weed or barely drink anymore. I somehow am the badguy? and I'm manipulating just because I don't want to hang around them anymore now that I see it all for what it is - and it's now my type of thing to do anymore is sit around and watch people smoke dope and talk sh*t & drink.
I've brought more fun and "Natural" times into my boyfriends life. We went swimming in the ocean with the big waves, we've went for hikes near the river. He taught me how to drive. We've watched the meator shower, we've had fires on the beach and roasted marshmellows. I took him to a lake I used to go when I was little girl ; to a cliff I used to always climb. I've played videogames with him all night and read books together outloud with him.
& through all those hard times I was losing my Mum at the time with cancer, and through all of that I got bashed by my boyfriends family because they thought I was trying to make him a man when he was already a man. They've tried to say every rude thing about me just to bring me down. I lost my Mum on Christmas day 2 years ago. It was devastating because she was the only good role model our of my biological family out of 11 siblings who are criminals, drug addicts and alcoholics. I am the 3rd youngest and I changed my ways and it made my mum so happy. I was the last person to talk to her and the last person she spoke to. I cried for days and my boyfriend was so kind and gentle towards me. He treats me like an angel and I'm having a baby with him. I am 32 weeks pregnant and his family still puts me down and his sister adds me on facebook and then she blocks and deletes me for no reason because I told my old friend who is my boyfriends brother to leave me alone because she came to my door one day and started cursing and saying she hates me and told a whole bunch of people that she was going to beat me up? so one day she yelled out to me in a store and said "WAIT WAIT! Whats up" and I just looked at her confused and pissed off because she crossed the line and I don't want to be apart of her life for the things she said and done. SO after I talked to her a tiny bit I said "Okay well I gotta go Bye!" and walked away - I went home and emailed her and said I didn't get her and to leave me alone, and that our friendship is over. Anyways -- my boyfriend hates her because she got his mom kicked out of her place which now she struggles...so she tried talking to him when he walked out of a store and a seen her talking away and then my boyfriend got in the truck and said why does that ***** feel the need to talk to me. & SO when I got home I emailed her and said "Okay leave us alone, we don't want anything to do with you" -- & she said "OH we're family" & she just started swearing off and being the sh*t talker she is she said to me I need to grow up.
..Anyways I'm 32 weeks pregnant and I love my boyfriend so much. I just can't handle his family drama because I have my biological family and thats WAY bigger drama than his family. My family put me through so much and I've escaped from them and changed my ways - yet It still hurts to see them in town passed out on the curb or staggering down the streets & they try and wave me down for a ride but I ignore them. & it hurts.
I'm thinking about leaving my boyfriend because my old friend insists still being loud and obnoxious and annoying to me & my boyfriend - & I don't stand for any drug and alcohol nonsense. Yet - she has my boyfriends brother and sister and sisters boyfriend & mother wrapped around her finger so now they all hate me, they all ignore me and my boyfriend and they blocked our number on their phone (his sister) & they fnger us when they see us in town.
..SO I just want to make my boyfriends life a bit easier and leave. I want to cry so bad right now because I feel pretty lost at the moment.
& She says "We're FAMILY" -- Clearly we are not. I ignore my biological family --- & I don't call them my family in the first place. Because family shouldn't have to invovle drugs and alcohol and DRAMA. I mean to a certain extend there will always be sad moments and ups and downs, however my boyfriends brothers girlfriend is just WAY too much for me. & she just can't seem to get that in her head. Not to mention I don't even think my boyfriends brother is going out with her anymore because I seen her kissing another guy in town? so who knows. She still chooses to come around and be loud and annoying & clingy.
My boyfriends brothers girlfriend was my friend at one time. We partied, smoked weed, got in trouble together. Then I met her boyfriends brother and we connected right away, fell in love. It was a different type of love than what my old friend has with my boyfriends brother. I didn't feel the need for drugs anymore, or "partying" I felt the need to grow and be happy with who I am with still my wonderful boyfriend. My old friend however enables drugs and alcohol in her boyfriends life and they fight and they make up, cheating has occurred with them as well - so It's just drama! and I didn't settle for it. I however changed for the better and so did my boyfriend and now everybody thinks it's the end of the world that he has a new job and gets paid more & he doesn't smoke weed or barely drink anymore. I somehow am the badguy? and I'm manipulating just because I don't want to hang around them anymore now that I see it all for what it is - and it's now my type of thing to do anymore is sit around and watch people smoke dope and talk sh*t & drink.
I've brought more fun and "Natural" times into my boyfriends life. We went swimming in the ocean with the big waves, we've went for hikes near the river. He taught me how to drive. We've watched the meator shower, we've had fires on the beach and roasted marshmellows. I took him to a lake I used to go when I was little girl ; to a cliff I used to always climb. I've played videogames with him all night and read books together outloud with him.
& through all those hard times I was losing my Mum at the time with cancer, and through all of that I got bashed by my boyfriends family because they thought I was trying to make him a man when he was already a man. They've tried to say every rude thing about me just to bring me down. I lost my Mum on Christmas day 2 years ago. It was devastating because she was the only good role model our of my biological family out of 11 siblings who are criminals, drug addicts and alcoholics. I am the 3rd youngest and I changed my ways and it made my mum so happy. I was the last person to talk to her and the last person she spoke to. I cried for days and my boyfriend was so kind and gentle towards me. He treats me like an angel and I'm having a baby with him. I am 32 weeks pregnant and his family still puts me down and his sister adds me on facebook and then she blocks and deletes me for no reason because I told my old friend who is my boyfriends brother to leave me alone because she came to my door one day and started cursing and saying she hates me and told a whole bunch of people that she was going to beat me up? so one day she yelled out to me in a store and said "WAIT WAIT! Whats up" and I just looked at her confused and pissed off because she crossed the line and I don't want to be apart of her life for the things she said and done. SO after I talked to her a tiny bit I said "Okay well I gotta go Bye!" and walked away - I went home and emailed her and said I didn't get her and to leave me alone, and that our friendship is over. Anyways -- my boyfriend hates her because she got his mom kicked out of her place which now she struggles...so she tried talking to him when he walked out of a store and a seen her talking away and then my boyfriend got in the truck and said why does that ***** feel the need to talk to me. & SO when I got home I emailed her and said "Okay leave us alone, we don't want anything to do with you" -- & she said "OH we're family" & she just started swearing off and being the sh*t talker she is she said to me I need to grow up.
..Anyways I'm 32 weeks pregnant and I love my boyfriend so much. I just can't handle his family drama because I have my biological family and thats WAY bigger drama than his family. My family put me through so much and I've escaped from them and changed my ways - yet It still hurts to see them in town passed out on the curb or staggering down the streets & they try and wave me down for a ride but I ignore them. & it hurts.
I'm thinking about leaving my boyfriend because my old friend insists still being loud and obnoxious and annoying to me & my boyfriend - & I don't stand for any drug and alcohol nonsense. Yet - she has my boyfriends brother and sister and sisters boyfriend & mother wrapped around her finger so now they all hate me, they all ignore me and my boyfriend and they blocked our number on their phone (his sister) & they fnger us when they see us in town.
..SO I just want to make my boyfriends life a bit easier and leave. I want to cry so bad right now because I feel pretty lost at the moment.
& She says "We're FAMILY" -- Clearly we are not. I ignore my biological family --- & I don't call them my family in the first place. Because family shouldn't have to invovle drugs and alcohol and DRAMA. I mean to a certain extend there will always be sad moments and ups and downs, however my boyfriends brothers girlfriend is just WAY too much for me. & she just can't seem to get that in her head. Not to mention I don't even think my boyfriends brother is going out with her anymore because I seen her kissing another guy in town? so who knows. She still chooses to come around and be loud and annoying & clingy.