Hubby and I rarely have sex. He makes excuses, sometimes he really is too tired from work to be honest. But on weekends when he doesnt work, he still has no drive. We used to always be all over eachother, now Im feeling like hes not even attracted to me anymore. He doesnt initiate sex whatsoever, and never compliments me. Im always fiesty, to say the least, but I feel like I have to beg for it. I have not let myself go, Im the same old me, we literally just got married!! We are newlyweds, I thought we'd be in the honeymoon stage for at least a few months...We have sex maybe once every couple weeks, and even then I dont feel like hes completely up for it..He is NOT cheating, of this Im 100% sure. He works and comes straight home, never done anything suspicious, and is always here when he isnt working..Im starting to think maybe hes depressed? I know sex doesnt make a relationship, but its an important part of one, and we used to be so sexual. Going from as sexual as we WERE to how we are NOW is completely downhill.
consider_this_today - - I understand your opinion, but thats not at all how it is in my situation. I do not turn him down, because as I stated, we had a great sex life beforehand and were always intimate. Then it just stopped. Dont think all ladies are like that, because I am most definitely not!
Marilyn, it would be very hard for me to beleive that he didnt really want to marry me in the first place..We dated for 8 years before our big day and have two children together.
consider_this_today - - I understand your opinion, but thats not at all how it is in my situation. I do not turn him down, because as I stated, we had a great sex life beforehand and were always intimate. Then it just stopped. Dont think all ladies are like that, because I am most definitely not!
Marilyn, it would be very hard for me to beleive that he didnt really want to marry me in the first place..We dated for 8 years before our big day and have two children together.