Self-esteem problems?

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I've always had a really low self-esteem. I've been anorexic before, and I'm on the verge of it again. I've never thought I was pretty (or atleast okay looking) or thin. I'm shorter than all my friends and one of me "friends" calls me fat on almost a daily basis and all the others repeatedly remind me of how short I am. I'm not even that short, I'm 5ft, and 14 years. It's just that because I'm shorter than them, they have to make fun of me because of it. I don't have very good "friends", but they're all I got. That one "friends" who calls me fat is my only ride to and from school so I can't just stop being her friend. I really have no choice on that one. I've told them that they really damage my self-worth and they don't seem to care. They do say sorry, but they claim they were "just playing", though I know they mean it all. What can I do to improve how I think of myself?

(PS- I'm 116 lbs and want to lose 16. Don't tell me not to, I'm going to anyway, I just don't know how)

Thank you
PS- I'm doing this for me, for what i think of myself, not to make some guy like me or to be popular or whatever. I could care less about that stuff.

Here's a picture if it helps. I know the lighting is bad and the camera hides half my face but it's the best I have.

http://a859.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/66/l_459ef9f6117f6d1f197a509a6edaee3a.png
 
well in my opinion u dont look fat at all..quite skinny actually..but if u want to lose weight its up to u, as long as ur still healthy its fine. and ur very pretty..so i dont see y ur "friends" make fun of u..perhaps they're just a bit jealous? try telling them again that it hurts ur feelings when they say mean stuff to u..and is there really no other way to get to school...coz that "friend" of yours doesn't seem very nice... but anyway just try to ignore their stupid comments and tell urself their just jealous becoz u are pretty and no1 shud be puttin u down like tht...hope u feel better..good luck!
 
i would say that your friends are a little bit jelious so just ignore them and get over it .
 
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