I am a first year phd student. I am living with two undergrads.
my work load is extremely heavy, staying on campus from 8 till 12am is typical for me. Apparently my roommates have trouble with that. The girl is a bit of a drama queen, she leaves passive aggressive notes everywhere. like "please don't do this" "please don't do that". I have been trying my best to ignore the negative feelings. until today. Apparently when I took out a glass to drink some water, washed it and put it back in the cabin-ate, I didn't wipe the outside clean as I should have. So this morning, stickers were on all cabin-ates, saying stuffs like "please don't put dirty dish in here, it is gross".
I was upset when I saw those, so I confronted her. Apparently she found dirty dish in the cabin-ate more than once (I never use her dishes though), and she is accusing me of never helping cleaning and so on. But matter of fact is, I don't have time to do that. and other than my room, all the stuffs in the house belong to her and her bf (they lived there before I moved in). I do not put stuffs randomly in the house, and I do not leave things behind.
My lease is until next summer, but I really don't want to deal with these bull shits. what should I do?
my work load is extremely heavy, staying on campus from 8 till 12am is typical for me. Apparently my roommates have trouble with that. The girl is a bit of a drama queen, she leaves passive aggressive notes everywhere. like "please don't do this" "please don't do that". I have been trying my best to ignore the negative feelings. until today. Apparently when I took out a glass to drink some water, washed it and put it back in the cabin-ate, I didn't wipe the outside clean as I should have. So this morning, stickers were on all cabin-ates, saying stuffs like "please don't put dirty dish in here, it is gross".
I was upset when I saw those, so I confronted her. Apparently she found dirty dish in the cabin-ate more than once (I never use her dishes though), and she is accusing me of never helping cleaning and so on. But matter of fact is, I don't have time to do that. and other than my room, all the stuffs in the house belong to her and her bf (they lived there before I moved in). I do not put stuffs randomly in the house, and I do not leave things behind.
My lease is until next summer, but I really don't want to deal with these bull shits. what should I do?