Rock and a hard place

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As everyone above said. I can't really add to that except that your mother doesn't need to get it, she just has to accept it. You're an adult now, and especially with this kind of thing, where you know yourself best, you have to be allowed to make that decision.
 
in the bible jesus on the cross says father father why have you know forsaken me

i understand that to mean that while jesus was on the cross god ran to the farthest depths/corner of heaven so he wouldnt have to see

you did waht god would do
 
are you calling jude a coward? because that's pretty fucked up. She's obviously not a coward if she's gone through this already with one aunt. I for one couldn't think any less of her if she couldn't handle going through it again right now. Once is hard enough.
 
No you are not, you don't even know what you are saying. Running from her emotions is god like? STFU!


The term "father why hath thee forsaken me" is referring to why did god let him on the cross, letting him suffer. Not running from jesus
 
well does it really matter you guys. We are here to help Jude in any way posible. So to both I say stfu and help or go to B&T.

Jude all I can say is everyone here has your back no matter what you chose to do. If you dont go well then no one here will think in one way different of you, and if you do go (im my opinion I dont think you should given you mind frame) but if you do go, I say good luck hun you'll need it. and just remember me and all the WTF'ers are always here and ready to give you a :hug2: when you need it just let us know and keep us or at least me updated cuz I wanna know how your doin, ok?
 
My heart goes out to you, and the tough decisions you're having to make. :hug2:

I understand not wanting to go through that situation again. My mom, dad and grandmother all died slowly, over time, of cancer. It's not easy (understatement) to watch or be around.

If it is financially possible for you to do so, you might consider staying home, and visiting your aunt on a fairly regular basis - like once a month. That gives you time to let her know how much you care, without forcing you to give up your own life.

I'm truly sorry you're having to go through this.
 
I know this is a few days old but I thought it was easier to update the original thread then to make a new one or individually tell everyone whats going on.

So in a way we compromised, my dad is going to drive my mom up there and I am going with them, Dad and I will stay a week and see everyone and my Aunt Chay. Then we shall drop off my mom and return to G.A.


Thanks everyone so much for helping me out and giving advice.
 
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