reporting abuse in a spades game . . how is it determined who is at fault .

[Marshall]

. and who gets ejected from game? I was ejected from a game where someone was taking three min to play their cards . We were ahead in score and I had no reason to delay . . my opponent starting taking his time to play and I suggested that we report him . . for some reason I was ejected and required to wait 24 hr. before logging in again . . this was unfair and damaged my ratings