A while back my friend of several years confided in me that she thought she wasn’t straight. I told her it was ok because I am lesbian. She seemed relieved. I didn’t think too much of it. Eventually we started flirting. It was great. About 5 weeks later, we got together. Things were going well.
Somewhere along the line, she became distant. She eventually told me that she wanted to break up because she only loved me as a friend. I was confused, but I told her ok because her happiness is important to me. She claimed she had mistaken her feelings for me as love and was sorry that she wasted my time. That really confused me. She hasn’t been seeing anyone else; she just spends all her time writing music (about us.) All her songs are bittersweet. They blame her for our relationship not working out.
I don’t know what to do. My mind tells me that she is having issues with herself and needs some time alone. My heart tells me that she still loves me. I am inclined to believe my mind more than my heart on this one, but my LGBT friends (thank goodness I have them!) think she loves me still.
What do you guys think? Any suggestions on what I could do? Thanks a lot!
Somewhere along the line, she became distant. She eventually told me that she wanted to break up because she only loved me as a friend. I was confused, but I told her ok because her happiness is important to me. She claimed she had mistaken her feelings for me as love and was sorry that she wasted my time. That really confused me. She hasn’t been seeing anyone else; she just spends all her time writing music (about us.) All her songs are bittersweet. They blame her for our relationship not working out.
I don’t know what to do. My mind tells me that she is having issues with herself and needs some time alone. My heart tells me that she still loves me. I am inclined to believe my mind more than my heart on this one, but my LGBT friends (thank goodness I have them!) think she loves me still.
What do you guys think? Any suggestions on what I could do? Thanks a lot!