Racheal Love 17.
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So, my boyfriend and I have fallen into this pattern of the same conversation every single day through text messages and IMs, but we are perfectly capable of having a normal conversation when we talk on the phone or are in person.
It's as if we have these meaningless pointless little arguments about who loves who the most, or what are you doing and then some short answer. It's boring and a little irritating. I usually just avoid texting and iming...but then I get irritated because I want to talk to him and cave into our annoying pointless conversations.
Anyway, I guess what I'm asking is, how do I help us get out of these patterns. I love him dearly, but I don't love our texting relationship.
It's as if we have these meaningless pointless little arguments about who loves who the most, or what are you doing and then some short answer. It's boring and a little irritating. I usually just avoid texting and iming...but then I get irritated because I want to talk to him and cave into our annoying pointless conversations.
Anyway, I guess what I'm asking is, how do I help us get out of these patterns. I love him dearly, but I don't love our texting relationship.