Background info: My girlfriend and I dated last year at this time but I cheated because I thought I was still in love with my ex. I was trying to be honest cause we were in a long distance relationship so i call and told what happened. She was upset and told me she didn't want to talk about it and hung up. After that we just didn't talk till 8 months later I decided to text her cause my feeling never changed. So we started talking about what happened she was never mad just hurt and she still wanted to be with me. Now we are trying this relationship again but i feel like i'm the only one trying. Its still long distant till she finishes school.
So my question is how do I get her to communicate with me? Because i'm the cheater and I have been cheated on I know she may still have trust issues, so I always try and keep in touch so she has no worries. I understand if she at school or busy. For example we will be talking and she wont be busy, then she will stop texting. I wait for like half the day and when I text her later she like no I wasn't busy. I don't understand how she doesn't want to talk to her girlfriend when she says she wants it to work. I have tried telling her that it sucks when we don't talk. And she understands that she needs to communicate more so she did for like three days we talked about anything and everything, now its back to the same old stuff. i know theres no cheating going on because she wants this to work. How do i talk to her about how I feel without her feeling like i'm trying to fight with her or attack her?
So my question is how do I get her to communicate with me? Because i'm the cheater and I have been cheated on I know she may still have trust issues, so I always try and keep in touch so she has no worries. I understand if she at school or busy. For example we will be talking and she wont be busy, then she will stop texting. I wait for like half the day and when I text her later she like no I wasn't busy. I don't understand how she doesn't want to talk to her girlfriend when she says she wants it to work. I have tried telling her that it sucks when we don't talk. And she understands that she needs to communicate more so she did for like three days we talked about anything and everything, now its back to the same old stuff. i know theres no cheating going on because she wants this to work. How do i talk to her about how I feel without her feeling like i'm trying to fight with her or attack her?