Hi guys I just want to thank you in advance if you decide to read this and help me itt might be a bit long i know :/
Well I am in a very confusing situatation I dont know what to think and I hope Ill be able to know what to do and clear my thoughts. Alright so my boyfriend told me a couple days ago that he had something to tell me in person. So yesterday I saw him and he told me in a very nicee way ( even tho theres like no nice way to say this) that he wated to take a break for like 2-3 weeks. he told me that after all hes been going threw he is still trying to figure who he is and understand his feelings especially towards me since he is really new at all this serious relashionship thing. he wants to know how it feels to not see me and miss me and see if he really have true feelings for me and stuff. The thing is we only see each other on weekend and I thought everything was going super well so I was really surprise. But at the same times I was doubting a lot my love for him so I thought this could kinda help me too i guess... but I really like the guy he was my first real love i also lost my virginity to him :/ anywayss heres where everything gets pretty complicated. After seeing nick ( my bf) I had to go to work and at work theres this guy named gab and he is just soo nice he always talks about his relashionship problems and I try to help him the best I can. But yesterday he clearly saw something was wrong with me soo i didnt lie I told him me and nick were talking a break. Gab actually made me laugh and made me feel so much better. I know guys might think im a ***** if i sya this but Ive always had a tiny miny crush on gab but I never thought it was mutual until yesterday. Because after work we starting texting and chatting for 6hours straight and honestly it felt soo goodd and I was happy talking with him it felt so natural. our convo kinda quickly changed into a flirty type of one and we both admit we had something for each other.He was like how come were not together since our gf/bf are pissing us off. In my head I was so just soo confused like nothing of this was planned and I feel bad about saying these feelings for him... cuz technically i am still with nick... and gab still has his girlfriend which also works at the same place as us but there also on a ''break''. LIke wtf im a doing?? is it right ...? Me and gab agreed on seeing each other this week out of work just to see how it is as friendss obvisouly just chilling. I really want to know how it is to hang out with gab compare to with nick.. but I dont know if I should? When i think abut it I know i will miss nick a lot. Im soo confused arrggg :/
Any help will be very helpfull and if you have any question just ask and ill answer them right away!
thanks soo much
a-m
Well I am in a very confusing situatation I dont know what to think and I hope Ill be able to know what to do and clear my thoughts. Alright so my boyfriend told me a couple days ago that he had something to tell me in person. So yesterday I saw him and he told me in a very nicee way ( even tho theres like no nice way to say this) that he wated to take a break for like 2-3 weeks. he told me that after all hes been going threw he is still trying to figure who he is and understand his feelings especially towards me since he is really new at all this serious relashionship thing. he wants to know how it feels to not see me and miss me and see if he really have true feelings for me and stuff. The thing is we only see each other on weekend and I thought everything was going super well so I was really surprise. But at the same times I was doubting a lot my love for him so I thought this could kinda help me too i guess... but I really like the guy he was my first real love i also lost my virginity to him :/ anywayss heres where everything gets pretty complicated. After seeing nick ( my bf) I had to go to work and at work theres this guy named gab and he is just soo nice he always talks about his relashionship problems and I try to help him the best I can. But yesterday he clearly saw something was wrong with me soo i didnt lie I told him me and nick were talking a break. Gab actually made me laugh and made me feel so much better. I know guys might think im a ***** if i sya this but Ive always had a tiny miny crush on gab but I never thought it was mutual until yesterday. Because after work we starting texting and chatting for 6hours straight and honestly it felt soo goodd and I was happy talking with him it felt so natural. our convo kinda quickly changed into a flirty type of one and we both admit we had something for each other.He was like how come were not together since our gf/bf are pissing us off. In my head I was so just soo confused like nothing of this was planned and I feel bad about saying these feelings for him... cuz technically i am still with nick... and gab still has his girlfriend which also works at the same place as us but there also on a ''break''. LIke wtf im a doing?? is it right ...? Me and gab agreed on seeing each other this week out of work just to see how it is as friendss obvisouly just chilling. I really want to know how it is to hang out with gab compare to with nick.. but I dont know if I should? When i think abut it I know i will miss nick a lot. Im soo confused arrggg :/
Any help will be very helpfull and if you have any question just ask and ill answer them right away!
thanks soo much
a-m