There is a (used to be) close friend that I really miss and want to reconnect with. I met up with her a few months ago, for the first time in 2 years, at a party she invited me to with a bunch of people I didn't know. I'm a little shy and don't really do well in those situations. And she seemed so different, though not in a bad way, that I was a bit shocked. So all the time I was at the party I was pretty awkward and quiet. And I felt like after that we were even more distant than before.
I really want to get the chance to reconnect with her on a more one-on-one basis. But I feel like if I message her saying "I feel like we've drifted apart, lets get lunch, etc." it'll just seem so out-of-the-blue and weird to her and she'll be really hesitant considering our most recent awkward encounter. What do you think?
I really want to get the chance to reconnect with her on a more one-on-one basis. But I feel like if I message her saying "I feel like we've drifted apart, lets get lunch, etc." it'll just seem so out-of-the-blue and weird to her and she'll be really hesitant considering our most recent awkward encounter. What do you think?