really need some help please......sex/oral?

[.J.]

mm since he is your bf you can change things*
tell him what's up

i personally prefer the lady's first phrase here.
it makes it easier for me to do him after i've already gone, because generally im still excited/in the moment.

he can't expect to go first all of the time, i'm normally less in the mood after giving my man pleasure because it is exhausting..
and as far as the taste... don't go like deep-throating him, that way when he does go you wont gag as much.. it's tough to get used to... this i know haha, but i dunno, i dunno it will never be an acquired or preferred taste hah..
but it gets easier but just sit him down and talk to him, let him know you wanna go first sometimes too.. and if he's not okay with that then peace out, because you CAN find a guy who WILL love to pleasure you... FIRST.. =)

 

[its me :-)]

ive been having a patch of never being in the mood for like the last month or maybe more but i really really want to be but my body doesn't seem to want to be....is this a phase or what else could it be.....how can i get back to being in the mood more?

and another thing...i really dont like giving b/j's and i know my bf loves it but i cant stand the taste at the end and the general nearly gagging etc feeling, if you swallow it its just unpleasant and if you spit it the taste stays in your mouth even longer, plus he's quite wide and it makes my jaw ache which really distracts me. i want to like it and not be as fussy and i want to want to do it for him...any suggestions? (ive tried flavoured condom and it was nicer but the bobbly teat just made me gag lol

and on the oral front no its not just the taste i just for some reason cant seem to like it no matter what i try :-( its getting me down cos its getting him down.... he used to always ask me for things and i did get stuff in return but now i feel like its expected of me and i dont like that even though i know i cant change that cos after all he is my bf
i did tell him about 10 months ago to cool down on the asking cos i couldn't take it no more cos in my previous relationship he was very pressurizing and it just brought back memories. i haven't done it now for a very very long time and he has said he wont dump me cos of it and im sure he wont cos of how long its been but i do want to enjoy it not just for him but just cos i love getting it but i dont get it really now i dont give it to him, but i do want to enjoy it

 

[A Beautiful Lie]

i love giving my boyfriend oral. just hearing him moan and enjoying it, it's such a turn on. i have a tongue bar so i tend to tease the head with that as well as deep throat. uhm put your hand's on his thighs when you are doing it because his legs tend to shake and there is a pulse in the penis before he's about to come this way if you are deep throating you ill know to move up towards the head.