really late period, negative tests?

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rachel22381

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i have posted some questions weekly on this but i am getting more upset by the day. I am about 3 weeks late. all negative tests. i had a early miscrriage back in december, and then ALL normal periods through april 26th. then we decided to try again in may, and now i have not had a period since. why when i decide i want to try again doesd this have to happen. i dont understand what could be happening. its like a cruel twist of fate that the month i try, i am so late and not pregnant. ( and i know some people say they get negatives and wind up pregnant but thats not me i always get positives IMMEDIATLY and even if i didnt, at 3 weeks past due i am sure i would)
i guess all i am looking for here is re assurance and understanding. i am just so upset about this
i am going to the doctor wednesday. but to me theres nothing they can do anyways. they cant see when my period is going to come. it seems like its just a waiting game. thats all
 
You may be pregnant as some women donot show high enough hcg levels in the hpt..some women donot show enough hcg untill they are 12 weeks pregnant which is what happened to my sister...she suffers lower hcg and has done with her last 2 pregnancies but her first 2 pregnancies she got positives straight away on the days her periods was due.. so go see your doctor and have a pregnancy test by blood. it is the most accurate way. and it could also mean you did not ovulate then i suggest you see a gyneacologist.. best of luck to you.
 
Don't be upset. First lets narrow down the possible reasons.
1. Pregnancy
2. Periods delayed due to stress etc
3. Mild hormonal fluctuations.
Stress plays a major role in this. Since it is being delayed, you are getting stressed, and again the stress delays it more. Did you see ur gyn or take a blood pregnancy test? Don't worry abut the past. People who have had miscarriages DO concieve and have healthy children. they just take some time. My mom had 2 miscarriages b4 me. So rest ur mind and give it some time...u are either pregnant or not thats all. Goodluck and loads of baby dust to you.
 
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