x- BrunetteBarbii -x
New member
I am 18 now.
When I was about 16 I felt really strong feelings towards a female friend (she lives aggges away, but we kept in contact through msn and phone etc).
I thought I really liked her in a more than friends way.
Anyway, since I have been having boyfriends etc.
Whenever I go on dates with a guy.. I always just end up wanting to be friends. I dont know if thats just because they arn't that special to me so I dont want to go out with them, and that I just dont like them like that?
Anyway. Me and my female friend lost contact but we are back in contact now. I feel feelings for her again.. but i cant work out whether these feelings are just strong friendship feelings or more. How do i destinguish these feelings? How do I know if i fancy her.. or just really like her as a friend?
I look at girls all the time when I'm out.. but its really just because I like to see what they are wearing, because i'm really into fashion. I cant imagine having sex with a female...
Anyway I'm basically really confused! Please help..
Also, i really like attention from this girl. If a guy talks to me or wants to take me out I always tell her.. kinda because I want her to care and I want her to be jealous.
(She is bi and has fancied me for years)
When I was about 16 I felt really strong feelings towards a female friend (she lives aggges away, but we kept in contact through msn and phone etc).
I thought I really liked her in a more than friends way.
Anyway, since I have been having boyfriends etc.
Whenever I go on dates with a guy.. I always just end up wanting to be friends. I dont know if thats just because they arn't that special to me so I dont want to go out with them, and that I just dont like them like that?
Anyway. Me and my female friend lost contact but we are back in contact now. I feel feelings for her again.. but i cant work out whether these feelings are just strong friendship feelings or more. How do i destinguish these feelings? How do I know if i fancy her.. or just really like her as a friend?
I look at girls all the time when I'm out.. but its really just because I like to see what they are wearing, because i'm really into fashion. I cant imagine having sex with a female...
Anyway I'm basically really confused! Please help..
Also, i really like attention from this girl. If a guy talks to me or wants to take me out I always tell her.. kinda because I want her to care and I want her to be jealous.
(She is bi and has fancied me for years)