I know this is quite personal, but well i'm desperate. I've been with my husband for 5 yrs. We've only been married a month, and this is really starting to affect our relationship. We have tried everything, and i do mean EVERYTHING! From flavored lube, rings, condoms (can't feel it) candy, I mean i don't know what else i can do. It physically makes me sick. We fight all the time. I love him and all i want to do is please him, but this is nearly impossible for me... somebody please, help me!!