Rape or just misunderstood sex?

[Mandy]

Ok so met a guy we decide to have sex, which we do during the night. Next day i wake up both of us are put for sex, i get on top i realise am sore from the night before, he tells me move around more. I cant so tell him get on top, i think this well be better cos he will have to move around more. He starts going really fast at first it ok, then it gets really sore. I think tell him slow down but i think i sound stupid cos he thrusting so hard and my voice will shake. So i deceide to say noting thinking he get tired and slow down. But he dosent so i shout NO, immediately he gets he to arms around my lower back and i seem to pull up in a grip towards him. while he dose that, i think '' You Ignorant prick, You didnt want to listen to me, tell him slow down. No dont he could be a freak that gets off on that and gos faster. So i say to myself dont worry he will *** soon, so i deceide to let him finish. Even thought i hate the sex it to sore, he then lets go off my grip. I then ask he gona ***? he says no it then over shortly. I often wonder if i asked him to slow down would he have?. But wasnt it weird the way he grabbed me when i said NO. Do you think it was rape?. Especially as i told you the honest story, and what was going on throught my head during it. If this happened to you, would you consider it rape? Pls HELP?