wasnt to them or about them...? A joke was made (this was all on facebook), about not wanting babies because they are hard to care for because they cry and need diaper changes, cost money etc, and another person said that the girl who joked made her sick for saying that. Turns out the girl who was offended lost her baby three years ago and she says the joke hurt her and so she doesnt care that shes bitter because she feels justified that the joke was out of place. I think the girl who is offended is out of line, because the joke wasnt to or about her and she is using her own pain to step on other people. should i tell the offended girl what i think? or should i leave it alone?. Btw im not either or the girls i spoke about, but i was a part of the conversation.