Well, im trying my best not to get pissed off but be of help to my husband. Here is the situation, my father in law is such a baby he acts as if he were a 5 yr old. This man throws tantrums at any little thing, he is a know it all and thinks he can act anyway he wants without there being any repercussions. He quit his job lst year in october without any thought didnt care that he and his sick wife live off his salary and need medical assitance monthly. He had a good position as an Electrician in a NUrsing home had his pension set did all 20 yrs and had extra time built into it. Since he is a know it all he couldnt take supervisors telling him what to do. So he quit, nothing health wise. This man has no savings nothing not even a pot to piss in. So here my husband his son is going crazy cause his father apparently doesnt care that his pension was basiclly thrown out the window and he and his wife dont have any medical coverage all he wants to do is go back to his country and live the life.
OK so they were in a sh*t hole for 3 mnths. luckily he didnt loose the pension he was able to get it but it came at the price of not having medical insurance but they have coverage for meds. He applied for disability and luckily got it had to fight but int the end he was apprved. NOw they live chck to chk cause they cant seem to use it right and dont have any coverage to see a doctor. Supposedly they cant even apply to any state funded program cause they make 2 much.
My husband seems to be getting stressed cause he can see his father doesnt care enough to find a solution not only for him but his sick wife. So of course my husband has tkn it upon himself to find a way to remedy the situation. It seems that everytime this man messes up my husband has to pick up the pieces and put them back tgether. He does it for his mother i get that part but at what point is enough enough. It is to my understanding that this is a problem that has always been there, since he was a kid. HIs father was not responsible and would leave them to fend of for themselves thru hell and high water.
I try my best to stick by him as much as possible but at times i get fed up and just want to tell him to stop helping cause it seems they know he will take caharge if anythig happen. Am i being selfish or do i have some reason to feel this way. Thnx
OK so they were in a sh*t hole for 3 mnths. luckily he didnt loose the pension he was able to get it but it came at the price of not having medical insurance but they have coverage for meds. He applied for disability and luckily got it had to fight but int the end he was apprved. NOw they live chck to chk cause they cant seem to use it right and dont have any coverage to see a doctor. Supposedly they cant even apply to any state funded program cause they make 2 much.
My husband seems to be getting stressed cause he can see his father doesnt care enough to find a solution not only for him but his sick wife. So of course my husband has tkn it upon himself to find a way to remedy the situation. It seems that everytime this man messes up my husband has to pick up the pieces and put them back tgether. He does it for his mother i get that part but at what point is enough enough. It is to my understanding that this is a problem that has always been there, since he was a kid. HIs father was not responsible and would leave them to fend of for themselves thru hell and high water.
I try my best to stick by him as much as possible but at times i get fed up and just want to tell him to stop helping cause it seems they know he will take caharge if anythig happen. Am i being selfish or do i have some reason to feel this way. Thnx