Stephany Webb
New member
I'm have only been sexually active with one person for only a few months, but I have large labia minora. I am extremely embarrassed about it. I know that it's normal, but I'm still very self concious about it. My boyfriend hasn't said anything bad about them, but I'm still paranoid to the point where I start thinking "has he noticed how big they are? Is he disgusted by them but won't say anything because he doesn't want to hurt my feelings?" while having sex. He mentioned one time about giving me oral since I give him oral sometimes and he wants to return the favor, but I won't let him because I'm scared of what he'll think of me. It kinda hurts because I wanna open up to him more because I love him, but I'm just so self concious about it. It's hard enough for me to even take my pants off around him for us to have sex because I don't want him looking at my crotch, even though I know he's seen it before. I guess I just wanna know what guys opinions about it are. Do you find them gross, or do you like them?