Question about club and dancing?

[Frank J]

I am a 5 foot 5 145 pound fit male. I am asian and 1/4 black, decent looking kid . Going to the club it is really hard to dance with many girls because i am shorter than them when they are wearing heels. How can i improve my chances and i am one of those guys who ask 50% time or go behind the girl and dance. It works though but should i like grab the girl by her handand lure her/ ask her or what? I made out with a girl before after dancing with her 2 songs in. While dancing should of like kiss her over her shoulder because some people do that? or Turn her around and slowly approach? thx alot