Public airing of grievences

Jori T

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I am so sick and tired of people's problems affecting how they interact with others. I am sick to death of how people who have issues bring them out to the public air so much that it just entirely engulfs them with what they do and how they do things.

I am sick and tired of being the brunt of my friends issues with life. Their issues with dealing with how things are and how things should be. Not everyone gets what they want. Now everyone will say they understand this sentiment but they really don't. Because once something doesn't go your way you guys bitch about it to no end. You guys wish things would go your way and you guys wish for people around you to always agree with you. I'm sick of this bull shit. I'm sick of people's egos getting in the fucking way. Two examples just happened this week alone and added on to that is my mom bitching me out from 9pm to 2am for the past 3 days in a row. and then from 3am to 7am when I leave my house this morning. I'm sorry I don't have a lot of patience for this shit right now but who the fuck cares because I sure as hell don't.

I despise society for making people believe that their opinions mean anything. That everyone tries to find others to coincide with just because they HAVE TO AGREE with evrything everyone says. I am sick and tired of having to view this every day of my life for the past 20 years. I have always hated it but now it has taken it's last tole on me.

Finding people who feel the need for their friends to feed their egos is just up for me. I'm sick of it. I'm sick of people who need their friends to just always be in the same wave length and same pattern of behavior as them.

My 7 best friends were people nothing like me. Didn't like the same shit I did, didn't like every single opinion I had and always had a valiant argument for me. But we were friends because we realized the respect was there. The truth was there even though none of us saw the truth in the same way. They truly understood what it mean to be an individual and stay that way even though friends would say different. We enjoyed each others company even though at times it felt like we were always at eachother throat. It was great because none of us fed eacho others egos and none of us didrespected the other. That is true friendship. I know I'll probably never find friends like that again butif I don't I'm glad I did have a period of time in my life where they were present.
 
Pretty much I have tons of issues but I don't normally tell my friends about them unless a) they are happening at the moment and are too important not to mention or b) said friends and I are having a "baring our souls" type of conversation in which we relate life stories and such. Only two people in my life (other than my family) know what I've gone through. I think it'd be okay if it stayed that way. I'm pretty cheerful most of the time and I try not to bring my problems to the table when I'm trying to have a good time. I go to my best friends for support when I really need it, but that's all.

Also I think it's good to be friends with people who are different from you but you have to admit that it's fun to hang out with people who are a lot like you... I mean, you have more stuff in common, you can do more stuff together. Right? Maybe you don't feel me. If so, w/e, it's cool.
 
Nah I feel ya. Friends who share things in common usually do more. That is true, but at the same time I wish that some people that dont always have to agree could do things together as well and still enjoy it because they both respect the other for being different.
 
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