My dad says racist things for instance hell say a person of color on tv looks like a gorilla, or hell drop the n bomb. I notice when i tell him i object to his vulgarity he smiles when however i say racist words back that he hangs his head low and is depressed almost like it is a taboo for him or a power play. Like he knows it upsets me and i guess he wants to show whose boss i an TIRED OF HIS COWARDLY MOUTH. How can i get him to shut the racism up!