I'm 31 weeks pregnant with my first child, and this is the 3rd time in this week I had a fight with my husband. We usually were a lovey-dovey, hardly-argue couple (probably once every half year?). We usually agree on things and we share everything; we've been together for more than 5 years before got married 2 years ago.
Before all of this, he was pretty supportive and helpful, especially when he found out I was pregnant again (I had miscarriage before). But lately, he said I was driving him nuts. The last 2 fights were because of he thought my way of prewashing baby's clothes were unnecessary.
I'm planning to use cloth diapers, and from what I read, I had to pre-wash it 3x to maximize its absorbency. And since the weather has been wet, I hung the diapers on the living room. He didn't say anything about it, until this morning his mama came along and question it. Then he started being angry at me, about how inappropriate to hang diapers on the living room and such. Then, he said he couldn't stand me being so overreacting and over panicking (which might be true, but yelling at me about it isn't helping), and then stormed out because I started crying.
He kept telling me not to cry and stress so much because it's bad for the baby, but what can I do when he cannot understand me? He said he didn't know if it's hormone or not, but he couldn't stand me anymore. I'm not even sure if it's hormone, or I'm just plain crazy. Is it a normal mood swing, emotional breakdown or something more horrible. I'm even getting worry that these fights would affect our relationship permanently, and he and I are going to be distant. What should I do?
*sorry for venting* I really had no one to talk to
Before all of this, he was pretty supportive and helpful, especially when he found out I was pregnant again (I had miscarriage before). But lately, he said I was driving him nuts. The last 2 fights were because of he thought my way of prewashing baby's clothes were unnecessary.
I'm planning to use cloth diapers, and from what I read, I had to pre-wash it 3x to maximize its absorbency. And since the weather has been wet, I hung the diapers on the living room. He didn't say anything about it, until this morning his mama came along and question it. Then he started being angry at me, about how inappropriate to hang diapers on the living room and such. Then, he said he couldn't stand me being so overreacting and over panicking (which might be true, but yelling at me about it isn't helping), and then stormed out because I started crying.
He kept telling me not to cry and stress so much because it's bad for the baby, but what can I do when he cannot understand me? He said he didn't know if it's hormone or not, but he couldn't stand me anymore. I'm not even sure if it's hormone, or I'm just plain crazy. Is it a normal mood swing, emotional breakdown or something more horrible. I'm even getting worry that these fights would affect our relationship permanently, and he and I are going to be distant. What should I do?
*sorry for venting* I really had no one to talk to