pregnancy and sex? sex drive?

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question about sex drive... may be graphic? so before I was pregnant me and my husband would have sex like every other day or so... then from 1 month to 5 months pregnant, we had sex like 3 times a month, ( we were also fighting like CRAZY) now in the 6th month, we haven't fought really and have sex pretty much every day... is this hormones? I am worried that when I get farther along or after the baby is born that the sex will decrease to nothing again.... also did your sex drive go up, stay the same, or decrease, in your pregnancy?? thank you
 
i have had 3 babys the amount of sex depends on hormones and of coarse the fighting..... with my first it went up for the first 6 months and then not to much after that because it was hard to get around the belly but that was my choice .... second hub and i where fighting like crazy and didn't have any for almost the hole preg..... and the last baby i was on bed rest so it was out lawed:P but it will return when y'all are happy in love and not to much to do with hormones unless you are jumping on him like crazy then its hormones and he is prob not complaining.....lol... good luck and congrads
 
my sex life with my hubby has been a roller coaster as well. He is terrified of hurting the baby so hes afraid to have sex with me. It really hurt me for awhile since it made me feel unattractive, not wanted, undesirable. Than randomly we would start having sex again more often. I am getting ready to enter the 9th month...last week we had sex like rabbits this week not so much but i am really not up for it. I have had heart burn and head aches and my stomach just feels so big and tight that i really don't have the motivation like i used to. Trust me this will all change with the little one comes out and my little girl parts are healed i plan on getting back in the sack with my hubby!
 
with my son, i didn't want to be touched and sex was like a chore. . . until the father left and I got a new boyfriend. I think i just didn't like him b/c he was such a jerk to me about the whole pregnancy thing. With my daughter tho, I can't stop wanting it. When the father and I were still together we had sex every morning and every night for 5 months. And I still dream about it, think about it and crave it. I moved away from him due to financial reasons, but believe me, when I see him it will be one helluva reunion. So yes, it is definitely hormones, and how u feel about the relationship at the time. U will probably want it more in the last trimester, but postpartum it will be the last thing on ur mind. Baby will sap the sexy right outta u. Have fun without questions while u still can. I know I would!
 
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