Timeload
I am sorry you feel so much pain. I did not find relief from prednisone for a week and then only kicked in for 3 days and the pain was back, but my disc had herniated and was pressing on my sciatic nerve.
I did find a great pain medicine doctor who looked at my mri (did you get an mri?) and was able to target a epidural cortisone shot with fluroscopy (xray) right into my disc area, she went in sideways which is different then the traditional up from the bottom shot approach. It took 2 shots about 3 weeks apart to give me relief. In the mean time I managed the pain with pain medicine, not prednisone. You can only get 3 shots a year in the same spot so make sure they are going into the right place. These shots are given by pain medicine doctors. You need to find the real source of your pain, shots can manage the swelling but may not fix the problem. Finding the real source of the problem will be your best long term solution, shots are often a bandaid if the problem is not fixed it will come back again.
As far as getting you family to understand that is a hard one. I have been in so much pain a couple of times that I just have to go to bed or lie on the couch. Sometimes you have to just not do and your family with get it eventually. I feel your pain and would not wish that pain on my worst enemy.
Good Luck hope this helps
PEmom
L5S1 discectomy 2008, 2/2009, 5/2009
L5S1 Posterior TLIF 4/27/2010