Pre-ejaculate...am I pregnant?

[Ashley S]

Well...you're all going to think I'm stupid...but anyways...my and my boyfriend, since my last period have fooled around, we had sex once with a condom...but four times before that he wanted to tease me and he just put it in for a few seconds...he DEFFINATELY did not ejaculate inside me...but I know there is a small risk of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate...so i was just wondering...cause I'm due for my period any day, well it was supposed to be today, but it was 3 days early last month so maybe it's just going back to its normal cycle...but anyways for the past few days I've been having cramps like I'm getting my period, I sometimes get those, and I've been having the discharge I always get right before my period too...buuuut no period. I have all my period signs, but its now showing up yet. Do you think I could be pregnant? what percent of a chance is there? And if I am pregnant...abortion isn't really an option...so what should I do about telling my parents about my problem? My boyfriend said he'd marry me, if they decide to kick me out or anything...so atleast hes not running from his problems...any advise??? please help! and I know, I WILL be 100% same from now on. Getting an IUD!!! It will make life sooo much easier! =)