the fact that you feel it necessary to state this is cause for concern. like SJFD says, you're guitar player is a control freak. if he wants you to sound like the other guy you're being setup as a scapegoat. have you had any gigs yet? $20 says that regardless of how the first one goes he throws a temper tantrum and blames everyone else in the band / or you get booted.
besides, from the mp3s on that site it sounRAB like an angry teenager trying too hard to be controversial while ripping off the pixies - poorly.