i've heard women say that they had to "learn to love" a man under their particular circumstances; one of my friends said they "learned to love" someone just to get away from an abusive step-father. one of my friends' moms said that she "learned to love" her husband because she was convinced he was the only man that would take her after she'd given birth to a son as a teenager who's father fled the scene.
my situation goes like this:
i am having a child in october. his father is verbally abusive with a little physical abuse here and there. i kicked him out 3 weeks before i found out i was pregnant, tired of his empty promises of change.
i've lost my great paying job and am now working a job that only pays $200 a week. after paying a sitter i will only bring in about $100 a week.
there is another man that has been trying to be with me for years. he is wealthy and wants to take me and the baby in. he says he already has a room ready for the baby should i decide to take him up on his offer.
the thing is, i really like him, but i don't know if ill ever love him that way, but i don't want my baby and i to struggle.
i want my child to have a good life, and this man could provide all the things he would need and more. if i choose to turn this man down on his offer, my child and i are looking at going without many things, and i fear that i will regret not taking this chance.
what would you do?
my situation goes like this:
i am having a child in october. his father is verbally abusive with a little physical abuse here and there. i kicked him out 3 weeks before i found out i was pregnant, tired of his empty promises of change.
i've lost my great paying job and am now working a job that only pays $200 a week. after paying a sitter i will only bring in about $100 a week.
there is another man that has been trying to be with me for years. he is wealthy and wants to take me and the baby in. he says he already has a room ready for the baby should i decide to take him up on his offer.
the thing is, i really like him, but i don't know if ill ever love him that way, but i don't want my baby and i to struggle.
i want my child to have a good life, and this man could provide all the things he would need and more. if i choose to turn this man down on his offer, my child and i are looking at going without many things, and i fear that i will regret not taking this chance.
what would you do?