POLL:........what would you do.?

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i met this girl last wk at a job interview, shes 26 i'm 18, she invited me to her flat. she told me shes really bored all day cos she just moved to town, has few friends and her husband works all day and comes home late.

i gave her my mob no/email cos she asked, i couldnt say no? aggh shes been messaging me since saying ohh we should meet up i really miss you, but i dont really want to know her?

i sound horrible but i'm young, dont want to be hanging around with a 26yr old that i dont have much in common with? i think shes really lonely, and she just messaged me saying why the silent treatment? we havnt spoken since last week? tell me whats going on?

what the hell do i do? i'm scared dammit?
 
i'd tell her she's starting to creep me out. i'd keep in touch with her through txts, ims or whatever when i could. and i mite meet up with her to do something, if i had nothing better to do & if she was gonna pay. & if it's gonna be entertaining.
 
let's see....
* if you have a job tell her you really need to focus on your job and you can't be texting while at work.

*if your in school tell her you can't text in class and you need to pay attention

*if your not doing anything and your just sick of it, just tell her that she needs to back off a little bit (in a nice way of course)

hopefully this helps a little bit!! :D
 
Wow

She's reaching out for a friend and you are treating her like crap.

I want to be just like you, for sure.
 
Well you have /do not have a boy friend, pretend that you do. You are not available, you are busy etc!
 
Just be like "oh hey sorry bout that I've just been really busy. The past few days I've been going out with friends and sleeping in late thats why." Maybe she'll get the hint you have better things to do. And she was NOT part of them. Good luck! Or you can introduce her to someone you don't really like. hahaha
 
she is just lonely and trying to get some friends of her own. try telling her that your busy and sorry you havent been in touch, try not to be to harsh on her just tell her oh sorry my mate is having a crisis or my boyfriend wants a quiet night in!
 
So as not to hurt her feelings perhaps you can just text back and say you have been so very busy recently, Let her know you have a good social life or a b/f. Hopefully she will take the hint.
 
Send her a copy of your favorite stalking movie and tell her to <bleep> off. BAM!
 
yuck..
thats kinda creepy.
i definitely would just leave her alone.
IF you somehow do bump into her.. just walk away or somthing
change your phone number and make a new email
or shell get you more annoyed.
 
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