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alright not to go into details. but i am in tn and hubby(marine) is in cali. now i have concerns he is cheating on me with his daughters sitter. he wont call or text and ask how his son is and the new sitter he has they have been texting like crazy about 200 times a day and pic/video messages sent at 2 am. i came home sunday night (aug 16) and he started doing all this texting while hes at work and late at night. she says shes married, hubby said he goes over there and hangs out a lot. well i havent talked/texted him in 2 days and he wont answer any of my calls. my question is as shitty as it may sound if i notify his command about the texting thing on going all night and all day when he should be working and that he will not talk to me about our son and i havent heard from him in 2 days will they take it seriously and i guess investigate the situation? i have all the records saved on my comp and to say there are about 8 reports with the military police with him being abusive towards me. i am not staying in the marriage but he still cant be doing this stuff until the divorce is finalized right? i just need advice on what i need to do. should i contact the command and tell them i am concerned? thank you for all yalls help!