That sounds EXACTLY what I used to be like. While I'm only a year older than you, I felt that way from puberty on. As I became more mature, I developed emotional attraction to guys as well, and now have an amazing boyfriend. I think alot of it is the stigma of being gay, and a sort of "Of course I'm not gay!" reaction. Not knwoing you, I can't tell you if you're gay or not but seeing as how I am and your story sounds similar to mine, I can guess you are.
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please help me with my sexuality?
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That sounds EXACTLY what I used to be like. While I'm only a year older than you, I felt that way from puberty on. As I became more mature, I developed emotional attraction to guys as well, and now have an amazing boyfriend. I think alot of it is the stigma of being gay, and a sort of "Of course I'm not gay!" reaction. Not knwoing you, I can't tell you if you're gay or not but seeing as how I am and your story sounds similar to mine, I can guess you are.
I agree with yourtube. I think from your answer you're probably gay and having problems dealing with it. It's very telling that you find some guys attractive but girls only emotionally attractive. I'm afraid there's your answer.
I'm gay but I get shy around girls and feel the need to impress them because that's what society pressures me to feel like. We're saturated with films about teen guy-girl romances and subconsciously we try and live up to them. But hey this is only my opinion. you're the one who truly knows your sexuality. I'd say try a bit of both. Date some guys and girls and see who you connect with.
You don't have to categorise yourself as gay, bi, straight. Just confused. You'll soon know who floats your boat, if you don't actually know already.
I'm gay but I get shy around girls and feel the need to impress them because that's what society pressures me to feel like. We're saturated with films about teen guy-girl romances and subconsciously we try and live up to them. But hey this is only my opinion. you're the one who truly knows your sexuality. I'd say try a bit of both. Date some guys and girls and see who you connect with.
You don't have to categorise yourself as gay, bi, straight. Just confused. You'll soon know who floats your boat, if you don't actually know already.
I agree with yourtube. I think from your answer you're probably gay and having problems dealing with it. It's very telling that you find some guys attractive but girls only emotionally attractive. I'm afraid there's your answer.
I'm gay but I get shy around girls and feel the need to impress them because that's what society pressures me to feel like. We're saturated with films about teen guy-girl romances and subconsciously we try and live up to them. But hey this is only my opinion. you're the one who truly knows your sexuality. I'd say try a bit of both. Date some guys and girls and see who you connect with.
You don't have to categorise yourself as gay, bi, straight. Just confused. You'll soon know who floats your boat, if you don't actually know already.
I'm gay but I get shy around girls and feel the need to impress them because that's what society pressures me to feel like. We're saturated with films about teen guy-girl romances and subconsciously we try and live up to them. But hey this is only my opinion. you're the one who truly knows your sexuality. I'd say try a bit of both. Date some guys and girls and see who you connect with.
You don't have to categorise yourself as gay, bi, straight. Just confused. You'll soon know who floats your boat, if you don't actually know already.
im tired of being trying to know if im straight, bi or gay so i will not ask about this this time. im 17 years old boy and find girls charming and would like to live with one if i could marry one but i don't feel any sexual attraction with them (also don't write me that this is because im gay and gays have good friendships with girls because this is not that case. when im with them i feel really shy and want to make them laugh). on the other side i don't feel emotional attraction with boys but i feel sexual attraction to them the problem is that that attraction is not clear. the only boys I feel myself sexually attracted are exclusively teens no more that 18. i have never felt sexual attractions to adult or young men and i don't think that with time i will like older boys because i don't feel this will change, im becoming older each year and it has been the same for a lot of years without any change and im not finding older boys attractive. my question is how would I be classified because i know these boys are males but if someone ask me if i like men i would say no because i don't see them as truly men and i know im not a pedophile because i don't find children attractive in any way!
how would i be classified?
i would prefer answers from specialists about this type of subjects.
how would i be classified?
i would prefer answers from specialists about this type of subjects.
That sounds EXACTLY what I used to be like. While I'm only a year older than you, I felt that way from puberty on. As I became more mature, I developed emotional attraction to guys as well, and now have an amazing boyfriend. I think alot of it is the stigma of being gay, and a sort of "Of course I'm not gay!" reaction. Not knwoing you, I can't tell you if you're gay or not but seeing as how I am and your story sounds similar to mine, I can guess you are.
I agree with yourtube. I think from your answer you're probably gay and having problems dealing with it. It's very telling that you find some guys attractive but girls only emotionally attractive. I'm afraid there's your answer.
I'm gay but I get shy around girls and feel the need to impress them because that's what society pressures me to feel like. We're saturated with films about teen guy-girl romances and subconsciously we try and live up to them. But hey this is only my opinion. you're the one who truly knows your sexuality. I'd say try a bit of both. Date some guys and girls and see who you connect with.
You don't have to categorise yourself as gay, bi, straight. Just confused. You'll soon know who floats your boat, if you don't actually know already.
I'm gay but I get shy around girls and feel the need to impress them because that's what society pressures me to feel like. We're saturated with films about teen guy-girl romances and subconsciously we try and live up to them. But hey this is only my opinion. you're the one who truly knows your sexuality. I'd say try a bit of both. Date some guys and girls and see who you connect with.
You don't have to categorise yourself as gay, bi, straight. Just confused. You'll soon know who floats your boat, if you don't actually know already.