kyle evans
New member
Just to get things straight i'm not looking for a girlfriend....this question is strictly for help with feelings and school. I'm a sad 21 yr old college student with ADD.
There is a girl in my class that I'm crazy about. She is so gorgeous and digs into my jolly side. She likes me too and has told me things about it before.....but I haven't told her I like her (i think she knows though). She has a boyfriend already. In school I find her so unbelievably distracting and I get depressed........it affects my marks...i'm barely passing. I want to be with her so bad....and seeing her with someone hurts me.......but I NEED to pass school. Even if she was single I probably still wouldn't try a relationship with her (because it affects my work).
On facebook there's a lot of stuff from her in the newsfeed/chat that I see all the time....it distracts me and hurts me to see things like her BF with her. Just to feel better I deleted her off my facebook (hoping she wouldn't care or really notice)....and it worked for a day. Then the next day I got an inbox message from her saying I broke her heart and really hurt her....I felt so bad... that I readded her saying it was an accident.
I want to pass school and get this off my mind. For people that don't have ADD or anxiety problems you really don't know what it's like......what should I do???? I am going to get kicked out of the program if I don't perform better next semester.
There is a girl in my class that I'm crazy about. She is so gorgeous and digs into my jolly side. She likes me too and has told me things about it before.....but I haven't told her I like her (i think she knows though). She has a boyfriend already. In school I find her so unbelievably distracting and I get depressed........it affects my marks...i'm barely passing. I want to be with her so bad....and seeing her with someone hurts me.......but I NEED to pass school. Even if she was single I probably still wouldn't try a relationship with her (because it affects my work).
On facebook there's a lot of stuff from her in the newsfeed/chat that I see all the time....it distracts me and hurts me to see things like her BF with her. Just to feel better I deleted her off my facebook (hoping she wouldn't care or really notice)....and it worked for a day. Then the next day I got an inbox message from her saying I broke her heart and really hurt her....I felt so bad... that I readded her saying it was an accident.
I want to pass school and get this off my mind. For people that don't have ADD or anxiety problems you really don't know what it's like......what should I do???? I am going to get kicked out of the program if I don't perform better next semester.