Please help me :( It´s my real story and I just dont know what to do....:(?

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Hello all,you all might think I am a stupid girl after reading my story.....Yes I am...I am now 20 studying medicine living in Germany,a few months ago i met a boy online,he´s a 25 years old doctor living in the US.I like him and he likes me either.We both are Chinese and We are planning to have a trip back to China this autumn.We just sent each other some photos .He´s busy at work and so am I with school.So we only chat,email .I have really good feelings to him and I think so does he.But we have never seen each other on webcam cuz he didnt ask me for that ,nor did i .He said me he likes me because how I am but not what i look like.Though that i scare of one day I meet him and the feelings can be different.But I really like him and I think he has all the qualities of my dream prince.Should I go back to China to meet him?He just asked me to let him know when I come back to China then he'll go with me.Sometimes I think of the difficulties that can happen in that really long distance relationship:( I still have 5 years to do with my study while he ´s graduated and has a good job.Should I enter this "risky" relationship?I am really faithful and honest.Once I tell someone about anything i ll want to keep words ....Btw he´s a good looking boy and I am just an average girl, a small one :( I am not any super models.He said me I should continue on my studying and then get a good job for that we ll have enough money to build a happy family ,give the kids the best educationI have enough friends in CHina,I lmoved from there when i was 10 and He speaks chinese too but he was born in the US.I still have my relatives in China while he doesnt have anyone there.He goes there just because of mePlease I really need advice
 
I think the cons way out the pros here and you should not enter this risky relationship. I'm sorry.
 
AWWWWWWWWWWthats so sweeti think you need to go back and see himdont worry i think it will be fine he sound niceyou go girl get ur man
 
well if u really like him then y not right? tell HIM your problems and explain everything to him
 
If you are ready I think you should go with him, but make sure you have people there in China that will look out for you and check up on you just in case anything goes wrong.I also think you should get the advice from your family and friends. They know you better than anybody on this website, and know if you are ready for this trip.But most of all make the decision yourself and do not let anyone tell you what to do. You know yourself the best, and if you think it is right, I think you should go for it
 
if he likes you for your personality and stuff. then you should have nothing to worry about. you two sound like a perfect couple i would ask him what zodiac sign he was so you could see if you were soul mates
 
It sounds very strange. I don't think it is worth it cause he might be a creep. He should see you instead of telling you to go see him.
 
Well my dear, anytime you meet somebody either online or even at the coffee shop, it's still a risk because you only know what they tell you. Have you talked to him on the phone yet? I think you should do that first! Make sure he IS a guy and does speak Chinese and make sure he sounds young...For all you know, it can be this old pervert preying on young women..Another advice, ALWAYS go with your gut feeling! Because usually you gut feeling is RIGHT! If you don't have a good feeling about doing this, then go with that. Just be very careful and don't always believe what a person tells you unless you know for sure! Take care and be safe!
 
Go for it....you'll always wonder what could have been....You don't have to be a supermodel, lots of men like small women. Lots of men like smart women, and you probably are pretty, I think Chinese women are pretty....Don't underestimate yourself!!
 
Long distance relationships are tricky, and this is about as long distance as you get :opInsist on talking to each other on a web cam, you have to see him and know it's him... i could send you all the pics you want to convince you I'm a little girl, but that doesn't make me one. If he won't, that should send up all sorts of red flags. If he will... go meet him in China, he sounds great :o) Do make sure your friends and family know where you're going to be each day and it would be a really good idea to call a friend each night of your trip.. you can't be too careful. expect the best but plan for the worst and you should be OK :o)then when you know he's all good you can be more confident about a long term, long distance relationship :o)best of luck to youtweedle d
 
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