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Okay, I know that this is lengthy- but I need to get it out. I need someone to help me. Please. No rude comments. I just need honest opinions and also, men, would you please tell me some of the basics on understanding you all?
About two years ago I met this guy and we fell in love. Everything was going good until something extreme happened. This hurt my boyfriend so much that he changed over night. Completely. He changed from being a quiet, shy, sweetheart to a loud, rude, a**hole. Yeah, the thing was bad, but it wasn't my fault. Since then, we've been on and off. One time, I got on his MySpace and he was flirting and so on with girls. He said that his brother and uncle hacked his account and did it. It happened again on another site. He said the same thing. When I was pregnant with our baby, he texted me and told me that he was in love with his ex for that whole time we were together and he was never in love with me. Now he is saying that he never loved her and his brother made him think that he loved her because he kept on bringing her up to my boyfriend. He says he loves me. He begs me to be with him. I said "sexy man" to a guy today (I was joking) and he took it all serious, started crying, and said he doesn't want to be around me anymore. But, we wasn't even dating in the first place! I try to explain things to him but he never listens.
I don't get him. Please, someone help me sort my thoughts. It would be greatly appreciated.
Also, do you guys think that he loves me? He says he does and he always asks me out- why would he do that if he doesn't love me? I mean, a lot of girls like him and they're all very pretty.
What should I do?
About two years ago I met this guy and we fell in love. Everything was going good until something extreme happened. This hurt my boyfriend so much that he changed over night. Completely. He changed from being a quiet, shy, sweetheart to a loud, rude, a**hole. Yeah, the thing was bad, but it wasn't my fault. Since then, we've been on and off. One time, I got on his MySpace and he was flirting and so on with girls. He said that his brother and uncle hacked his account and did it. It happened again on another site. He said the same thing. When I was pregnant with our baby, he texted me and told me that he was in love with his ex for that whole time we were together and he was never in love with me. Now he is saying that he never loved her and his brother made him think that he loved her because he kept on bringing her up to my boyfriend. He says he loves me. He begs me to be with him. I said "sexy man" to a guy today (I was joking) and he took it all serious, started crying, and said he doesn't want to be around me anymore. But, we wasn't even dating in the first place! I try to explain things to him but he never listens.
I don't get him. Please, someone help me sort my thoughts. It would be greatly appreciated.
Also, do you guys think that he loves me? He says he does and he always asks me out- why would he do that if he doesn't love me? I mean, a lot of girls like him and they're all very pretty.
What should I do?