I have a huge crush on a guy and I really can't tell if he likes me or not. This was when I was working with him over christmas. I'll tell you the pros and cons:
Pros: He introduced himself first
He's single (Another co-worker told me he was)
He always helped me out whenever I asked for it
Was always nice and smiley to me
When I went to ask him something and tapped him on the shoulder, he half turned, winked and clicked his tongue at me, which I assume was flirty, I'm not sure.
I think I could see him looking at me from time to time but for all I know he could of just been looking at the space next to me/general direction.
He always listens to what I say.
Whenever I'd self depricate myself in a jokey or serious manner if I made a mistake he'd always reassure me that I wasn't stupid at all.
He'd offer to help, or get me to help him when he could of asked anyone else.
He'd come downstairs a fair amount, where I was usually based, and I think he'd look at me from the corner of his eye, like if he was carrying something. He'd also stand by me if he had to use the phone or computer (not all the time but sometimes, despite their being other computers and phones handy) but is that just coincidence? Out of the corner of my eye I'd notice that while on the phone he'd be facing my way and his eyes facing my direction.
He has touched me on my shoulder (lasting about a minute), and bumped into me, his arm would rub against mine, small amount of contact.
Would seem happy to see me, one time he gave me such a nice happy smile, like he was pleased to see me.
If he was helping me with something on the computer he'd stand really close behind me and bend over my shoulder, or next to me but quite close, sometimes his face would be sort of close to mine.
Said he wasn't very good with names but remembers mine...(why?)
He'd stutter, but then I did notice he'd do that sometimes while talking to others anyway.
CONS: He's never been able to give me eye contact when we talked, he'd face me, lean in a bit but no close up eye contact, unless I caught him looking right at me from further away.
When I got the courage to give him my number, he took it, but has never used it. (He didn't ask for it I just gave it to him)
When I gave him my number he started acting odd, not his usual cheery, smiley self around me, he'd still help me, sometimes refused, but stopped talking to me as much, and would appear to ignore me a bit more, like I'd say hello and he'd either not respond or would gloomily say hello. And when on lunch he'd see me talking to a co-worker, he'd talk to the co-worker but would ignore me and whatever I said totally. Bad sign.
I said I added him to facebook, (this was before he started acting awkward) and he said sort of sheepishly he's usually too lazy to go on their, and so still hasn't added me (But I believe when he says he's lazy, as I noticed a couple of times he hasn't added anyone else since)
A friend of ours (Who I strongly suspect has a crush on me, as he IS always texting me, and even asked if I liked him...) before that I asked him if maybe he could ask my crush if I could have his number, he said he did, and his response was that "He didn't like to have his number handed out".
But then I'd still get the feeling that he'd look at me from a distance. Also when we were in a managers meeting, he sat a few people away from me, and through a gap behind the person next to me I saw that he was staring right at me, when he saw I caught him he looked away.
But this mutual friend of ours says he's not said anything about me, I don't know if I should believe it or not if he's got a crush on me...
I just don't know what to think. I had such a good feeling that he liked me, even now (yeah I'm a fool) but the phone numbers thing, him not calling or texting and him apparently refusing to give his, not a good sign at all.
What do you guys think?
He actually said "I'm not good with names usually but I remember yours..."
Pros: He introduced himself first
He's single (Another co-worker told me he was)
He always helped me out whenever I asked for it
Was always nice and smiley to me
When I went to ask him something and tapped him on the shoulder, he half turned, winked and clicked his tongue at me, which I assume was flirty, I'm not sure.
I think I could see him looking at me from time to time but for all I know he could of just been looking at the space next to me/general direction.
He always listens to what I say.
Whenever I'd self depricate myself in a jokey or serious manner if I made a mistake he'd always reassure me that I wasn't stupid at all.
He'd offer to help, or get me to help him when he could of asked anyone else.
He'd come downstairs a fair amount, where I was usually based, and I think he'd look at me from the corner of his eye, like if he was carrying something. He'd also stand by me if he had to use the phone or computer (not all the time but sometimes, despite their being other computers and phones handy) but is that just coincidence? Out of the corner of my eye I'd notice that while on the phone he'd be facing my way and his eyes facing my direction.
He has touched me on my shoulder (lasting about a minute), and bumped into me, his arm would rub against mine, small amount of contact.
Would seem happy to see me, one time he gave me such a nice happy smile, like he was pleased to see me.
If he was helping me with something on the computer he'd stand really close behind me and bend over my shoulder, or next to me but quite close, sometimes his face would be sort of close to mine.
Said he wasn't very good with names but remembers mine...(why?)
He'd stutter, but then I did notice he'd do that sometimes while talking to others anyway.
CONS: He's never been able to give me eye contact when we talked, he'd face me, lean in a bit but no close up eye contact, unless I caught him looking right at me from further away.
When I got the courage to give him my number, he took it, but has never used it. (He didn't ask for it I just gave it to him)
When I gave him my number he started acting odd, not his usual cheery, smiley self around me, he'd still help me, sometimes refused, but stopped talking to me as much, and would appear to ignore me a bit more, like I'd say hello and he'd either not respond or would gloomily say hello. And when on lunch he'd see me talking to a co-worker, he'd talk to the co-worker but would ignore me and whatever I said totally. Bad sign.
I said I added him to facebook, (this was before he started acting awkward) and he said sort of sheepishly he's usually too lazy to go on their, and so still hasn't added me (But I believe when he says he's lazy, as I noticed a couple of times he hasn't added anyone else since)
A friend of ours (Who I strongly suspect has a crush on me, as he IS always texting me, and even asked if I liked him...) before that I asked him if maybe he could ask my crush if I could have his number, he said he did, and his response was that "He didn't like to have his number handed out".
But then I'd still get the feeling that he'd look at me from a distance. Also when we were in a managers meeting, he sat a few people away from me, and through a gap behind the person next to me I saw that he was staring right at me, when he saw I caught him he looked away.
But this mutual friend of ours says he's not said anything about me, I don't know if I should believe it or not if he's got a crush on me...
I just don't know what to think. I had such a good feeling that he liked me, even now (yeah I'm a fool) but the phone numbers thing, him not calling or texting and him apparently refusing to give his, not a good sign at all.
What do you guys think?
He actually said "I'm not good with names usually but I remember yours..."