My ex is 21 and im 18
We had a really good relationship for 2 years
then things went wrong because i fell pregnant
I found out on may 23rd and the first thing i did was tell him i was pregnant...
He didnt really react to well saying ' ok then ellie whatever '
obviously in total denial
I then not matter what i did could get him to come around to the idea, so i decided to go talk to his parents. They where fantastic, really supportive and really lovely.
He just gave me abuse for days for going to see them, then he randomly just texted me to see if i was ok.... And he said he wanted to see me, so i let him come around and he was fine, he was looking at the baby pics and wanted to feel my stomach, he really was fine.
Then he went home and things changed, he started egnoring me, stiring rubbish between me and his parents who rang me regularly to try and get us to stop talking and no matter what i did he would not talk to me.
I august he then randomly rung me of his number..
When i texted him to ask him why he is ringing me he said it was an accident but asked me if i was ok :S, i was really confused
We spoke for about a week.. He was asking me if i was ok, if i had a new boyfriend, telling me he missed me and still cares..
He then went on to ask me what i am going to call the baby?, which he said ' miles for a boy, grace for a girl '
i then decided to ring him one night to see if he would talk on the phone because he was not asnwering my texts...
He answered and he said hello.. and i said ' liam?' and he said ' yeah? ' and i said ' can we talk? ', and he hung up =[
After that he didnt reply to me AT ALL..
So i decided to ring his paretns just to say we had been in contact because i knew they would be pleased, and he denied it, saying
' why would i want to contact ellie? '
i was heartbroken =[
so i decided for the sake of my baby i needed to move on
Now he is going around telling everyone that i am not letting him see the baby....
We have been throught this before, we went through this situation lastyear.. and he didnt talk to me for a while and afterwards he said he acted that way because he cudnt handle what i was telling him, do you think that could be the problem this time!??!
What is going on with him!?!? is he just confused and scared?!?!
do you think he will come around!??!
We had a really good relationship for 2 years
then things went wrong because i fell pregnant
I found out on may 23rd and the first thing i did was tell him i was pregnant...
He didnt really react to well saying ' ok then ellie whatever '
obviously in total denial
I then not matter what i did could get him to come around to the idea, so i decided to go talk to his parents. They where fantastic, really supportive and really lovely.
He just gave me abuse for days for going to see them, then he randomly just texted me to see if i was ok.... And he said he wanted to see me, so i let him come around and he was fine, he was looking at the baby pics and wanted to feel my stomach, he really was fine.
Then he went home and things changed, he started egnoring me, stiring rubbish between me and his parents who rang me regularly to try and get us to stop talking and no matter what i did he would not talk to me.
I august he then randomly rung me of his number..
When i texted him to ask him why he is ringing me he said it was an accident but asked me if i was ok :S, i was really confused
We spoke for about a week.. He was asking me if i was ok, if i had a new boyfriend, telling me he missed me and still cares..
He then went on to ask me what i am going to call the baby?, which he said ' miles for a boy, grace for a girl '
i then decided to ring him one night to see if he would talk on the phone because he was not asnwering my texts...
He answered and he said hello.. and i said ' liam?' and he said ' yeah? ' and i said ' can we talk? ', and he hung up =[
After that he didnt reply to me AT ALL..
So i decided to ring his paretns just to say we had been in contact because i knew they would be pleased, and he denied it, saying
' why would i want to contact ellie? '
i was heartbroken =[
so i decided for the sake of my baby i needed to move on
Now he is going around telling everyone that i am not letting him see the baby....
We have been throught this before, we went through this situation lastyear.. and he didnt talk to me for a while and afterwards he said he acted that way because he cudnt handle what i was telling him, do you think that could be the problem this time!??!
What is going on with him!?!? is he just confused and scared?!?!
do you think he will come around!??!