please dont judge me i feel bad enough but someone please lend some much needed...

[loved.020108.]

...advice...? okay so theres this boy && i met him in december at a bowling alley && he asked for my number which i gave to him && he used to send me flirty text && call && stuff...but in march we really got serious he texted me one morning && said do you want to leave school && i said yeah so we left && somehow we ended up in a room alone && sex happened...

from then on we were inseperable he even dropped the love bomb on me && i said the same back cause i really did.then in april he came to my house && it happened again...&& if his phone was messed up he made sure to text me off someone elses.last time i saw him was last week && same thing happened again && he was really rude throughout the whole thing he called me immature && just some really mean stuff.

i drove to his house the last time with no license...&& on my way back home i was so frustrated about what he said that i drove without any headlites && sure enough police pulled up behind up behind me. i told him what happened that night seemed like he didnt really care.then last nite i was texting him and he told me to stop textin him...does anyone know what could of went wrong?
i dont know why i lowered my standards so much i think thats what hurt the most...please dont say anything to mean i just want the truth even if it does hurt...
i know he going to come back around && i dont know what to do when that happens...

 

[Angelia]

same thing happend to me before.
it was just a few months ago.
im 15 and i had sex with a 21 year old and he told me im beautiful and when im 18 we can be together so i wen to his apartment and skipped school and i had sex with him later that night he never talked me i still havnt talked 2 him this day.
i feel so used.
but now i met a guy hes 19 and hes perfect
we are actually expecting our first baby.

 

[Ryan]

It sounds as if he was using you to get what he wanted. He charmed you and told you what you wanted to hear in order to have sex with a few times, then he most likely came upon someone else and decided it was time to push you away and move onto the next girl.

I'm sorry if that was blunt but more than likely, that's what happened.

It's the best thing now that you just move on too. Don't talk to him, text him, talk about him...just forget about him. He's a jerk, an as* and he's not worth any girl's time, effort or pain.