LuvIzLuvIzLuv
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We broke up 3 years ago. We were together 5, throughout that time he would tell me that I needed to tell him what I was thinking or feeling more. Then he'd make a face like I was a weirdo, ignore me, change the subject or just flat out reject what I was saying. I'm more of a private person when it comes to my actual feelings, so he basically crushed me every time he did that. Idk how I put up with it so long.
So tonight he calls me and says that I always have to act like miss independent and if I think that I can't talk to him then we need to work on our communication. I'm dumbfounded by him saying that because first of all we are not together, we are just friends now. We get along fine when we keep things light. But once he starts talking about how he misses me and how I need to make time for him I get so aggrivated because he didn't appreciate me before.
My question is what could he possibly want from me? He knows that I am not going to sleep with him, I hesitate to even hug him anymore. I'm not going to give him rides or money. So why does he continue to try and drag my feelings out of me when I apparently never say the right thing to him anyway?
Him:
Pisces sun/mercury
Aries moon/venus/mars
Me:
Libra sun
scorpio moon/mercury/venus
capricorn mars
I know it won't work out. I'll always have some kind of feelings for him, but I can't tell him anything at all. Either I'm too shallow or too deep, it's never right for him.
So tonight he calls me and says that I always have to act like miss independent and if I think that I can't talk to him then we need to work on our communication. I'm dumbfounded by him saying that because first of all we are not together, we are just friends now. We get along fine when we keep things light. But once he starts talking about how he misses me and how I need to make time for him I get so aggrivated because he didn't appreciate me before.
My question is what could he possibly want from me? He knows that I am not going to sleep with him, I hesitate to even hug him anymore. I'm not going to give him rides or money. So why does he continue to try and drag my feelings out of me when I apparently never say the right thing to him anyway?
Him:
Pisces sun/mercury
Aries moon/venus/mars
Me:
Libra sun
scorpio moon/mercury/venus
capricorn mars
I know it won't work out. I'll always have some kind of feelings for him, but I can't tell him anything at all. Either I'm too shallow or too deep, it's never right for him.