people always call me weird, but i just want to be normal!?

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i can't help it, i'm always the quirky weird one. it always hurts my feeling a little when people call me weird even though they say it's a compliment (?) or "but i love it!"

i'm sick of being the phoebe!! i want to be the monica or the rachel, not the weird one....

how i can stop being so quirky-weird and be normal in social situationss?? what IS normal?
 
I've been the quirky, even eccentric one myself. I always wonder...What EXACTLY is normal? Normal for me may not be normal for you. We're all different and we relate to the world in different ways. Why do you worry so much about what they think? People who worry excessively about what other people think of them are often insecure people because they're usually afraid to stand out. It really takes some courage to be different. They may be jealous of you...
 
Forget about what other people think about you and just keep being yourself. Weird is not a bad thing, it means you are unique.

Be true to yourself and don't worry about what other people have to say about you.
 
Weird is just a word people use to describe other people when they can't think of any better description. So in a way, there is a whole range of "good weird" attributes and "bad weird" attributes. As long as you're not pushing people away from you, just take being called weird as a compliment, and a cop-out for a better word and keep living your "weird" life confidently. One day, someone who understands you better will have a much more suiting word for you.
 
Forget about what other people think about you and just keep being yourself. Weird is not a bad thing, it means you are unique.

Be true to yourself and don't worry about what other people have to say about you.
 
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