Sorry So Long... but im mad!!
Hi... man i am so mad it's hard for me to write this. Okay i have a 4 1/2 month old baby girl - Reese Marie Davis. I have an ex by the name of Bruce who i was with prior to leaving Tx. right before i got pregnant. I moved to Louisiana in May of 2008. There i met the current father of Reese and spent the summer and so on with him. I discovered i was pregnant approximately late September early October. I was about a month pregnant. I was not pregnant upon arriving Louisiana i know this because i went to the doctor to make sure and the results were negative for pregnancy. Since all of this my babies father has gone to jail due to selling drugs. I know, sounds bad but that's the way it is. So since then i stayed in Louisiana for a while till i had the baby. I realized how hard it is to parent a child single handed and i have more support here in Tx. so i moved back a couple of months ago. I have been back seeing Bruce - my ex. since my return. I have been hard to get on my feet with help of Bruce and other friends and family also. Even though i left my baby's father i love him very much and we write constantly. He is beyond upset about my leaving with his daughter but is trying to understand my reasoning. Bruce now has decided he wants a paternity test to make sure he is not the biological father of Reese. He is going to pay me 1 thousand dollars if the results say that he is not the father. I have told him a million times Reese, her father and i know that he is the father... Reese looks just like him! But Bruce is an older person who hasn't gotten to have kids yet and really hopes and wishes he could be the dad. But he's not and it is an insult of my intelligence to tell me i do not know who my baby's father is! Reese and her dads whole family know and love this baby and know that she is one of them. Plus the math clearly does not add up that Bruce would be the father, i was not pregnant when i left Tx.! So he is putting me through this whole testing thing and it is just weighing on me emotionally. He has written and signed a letter in which i am going to have notarized saying that i will receive 1 thousand dollars within one week of a "not the father" result. We have an appointment set for Monday morning. Is it just me or would this annoy the hell out of any fellow mother?? I don't feel like i should be put through this just to solve his suspicions. If the math doesn't add up it just doesn't. Am i being selfish or something. I dunno it has me very worked up and upset. Someone please give me your opinion and tell me what u think i should do. Or if i am being irrational.
Hi... man i am so mad it's hard for me to write this. Okay i have a 4 1/2 month old baby girl - Reese Marie Davis. I have an ex by the name of Bruce who i was with prior to leaving Tx. right before i got pregnant. I moved to Louisiana in May of 2008. There i met the current father of Reese and spent the summer and so on with him. I discovered i was pregnant approximately late September early October. I was about a month pregnant. I was not pregnant upon arriving Louisiana i know this because i went to the doctor to make sure and the results were negative for pregnancy. Since all of this my babies father has gone to jail due to selling drugs. I know, sounds bad but that's the way it is. So since then i stayed in Louisiana for a while till i had the baby. I realized how hard it is to parent a child single handed and i have more support here in Tx. so i moved back a couple of months ago. I have been back seeing Bruce - my ex. since my return. I have been hard to get on my feet with help of Bruce and other friends and family also. Even though i left my baby's father i love him very much and we write constantly. He is beyond upset about my leaving with his daughter but is trying to understand my reasoning. Bruce now has decided he wants a paternity test to make sure he is not the biological father of Reese. He is going to pay me 1 thousand dollars if the results say that he is not the father. I have told him a million times Reese, her father and i know that he is the father... Reese looks just like him! But Bruce is an older person who hasn't gotten to have kids yet and really hopes and wishes he could be the dad. But he's not and it is an insult of my intelligence to tell me i do not know who my baby's father is! Reese and her dads whole family know and love this baby and know that she is one of them. Plus the math clearly does not add up that Bruce would be the father, i was not pregnant when i left Tx.! So he is putting me through this whole testing thing and it is just weighing on me emotionally. He has written and signed a letter in which i am going to have notarized saying that i will receive 1 thousand dollars within one week of a "not the father" result. We have an appointment set for Monday morning. Is it just me or would this annoy the hell out of any fellow mother?? I don't feel like i should be put through this just to solve his suspicions. If the math doesn't add up it just doesn't. Am i being selfish or something. I dunno it has me very worked up and upset. Someone please give me your opinion and tell me what u think i should do. Or if i am being irrational.