Parents think im having SEX? And dad OVER REACTS?

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Okay so im going to be 16 next week.

Last night i went out with my bf to see a movie and when he dropped me off my dad is already standing in the door way, which hes never done before.

Well my bf always waits 4 me 2 get into my house be4 he leaves, but this time my dad jus yells at him saying get off my property.

So when i got inside i asked him what that was all about. And my mom is sitting at the table and my dad jus tells me to sit down, so then we were all jus sitting there and my dad asked if i was having sex, and i said no im still a virgin.

then my mom tells me 2 just tell the truth, and i said i was telling the truth. and my dad stood up and then started yelling in front of me saying "Then why did the neighbors say u were" and then i stood up 2 go to my room becuz wen my dad gets loud its a good idea to just leave the room.

Well anyway when i stood up he basically pushed me back to the ground and i started screaming becuz he just held me there so my mom told him to just let go, but he didnt and just covered my mouth and started yelling about how discusted he was in me, and that i was not to see my bf again, and i couldnt watch tv, or talk on the phone. After that he let go and i went to my room and locked my door my mom knocked a few times and tried 2 apologize but i just ignored it.

Oh and i really am still a virgin, ive never seen a penis in my life, except for those pictures in our schools health books.

My dad didnt say anything bout the computer so im on it now. my bf emailed me a few times trying to figure out wat happnd wit my dad, but i keep telling him not 2 worry about, and i try to change the subject, but he just ignores it and types back the same question over and over again.

Is it any of his buisness wat happend? Is my dad aloud to do what he did? Do u think my mom did anything wrong and should i forgive her? Would it be a crime if i were to take clothes and food from my house and leave without telling anyone?

PS: Please answer atleast one of my questions and thankyou so much.
 
i think that you should forgive your mom after all it was your dad who did all yelling
 
I say ur dad is overreacting a little bit, but he is just trying to do the best for you and protect you, its annoying but we all have to go through it. I think you should forgive your mom and have a honest talk with her telling her that you wouldnt do that and so on, dont run away, running away from problems NEVER solves them, and if you do it will just make matters wayyy worse , in my opinion you should just have a talk with ur parents without runnign away i used to do that all the time until i realized that it never made anything any better
 
First of all it is your dads Business your his daughter and you 15. he is aloud to do what he did, you should forgive your mom she kinda did have your back, and do not leave that would be the dumbest choise to make trust i know from experiance when i was your age i was the worst little girl and i did whatever i wanted to do and i didnt care and i regret that so much right now, you really need to talk to your dad and let him know everthing explain to him and make sure he knows your not lieing..good luck, and god bless.
 
hell YEAH
GET NAILED BY YOUR BOYFREIND

YOU HAVENT SEEN A PENIS
There are so many girls like you never seen a penis at your age, my god, you need to get deepthroated, F#CK YOUR DAD

have sex with your boyfreind, and tell him, you loved every minture of it, or have your boyfreind do you in your room, so 1 night your dad hear's you moaning, and he walks in on you and your bf having sex...and LEt him attack your boyfreind, so than your boyfreind sues' him and than your dad is in jail,, and than do not visit him


OR Tell your dad, and cry and say you are not having sex, and that you do not wanna until, you are older, like 19 and say youd rather do it with someone you truley love



WHAT IS your boyfreind gay

your DAD's loves you, and he would hate like all fathers, to see, his baby girl having sex and doing sinful stuff, it just gets under their skin.... IF i have ever have, a pretty daughter, than i would worry for her, cause we know ugly girls dont have sex, however if i ever have kids, and 1 is a daughter, i would deffinatley without a thought be more scarred for her, and i would hate it if she got pregnant or if some strange dude was having sex with her

however I AM 1 of those jerk guys, who lives for dis sh#t,
 
i think you should tell him what is going on
i think you should NOT run away it that is what you are suggesting with the last one but i think you should talk to you mom alown and explain to her that you really are a virgin and stuff i think that is really the best thing you can do right now
 
Your Dad's a prick, oh and by covering your mouth with his hand and holding you down is physical assault and you could report him.

He cannot stand the thought of some guy dickin his daughter. When he has calmed down go and ask him why he would believe his neighbors over his own daughter and find out what story they have fed him.
 
Parents now a days.. i think you should tell your bf wats going on.. so he wont be worry.. obviously your parents are worried of u having sex, i think its normal to ask, but they shouldnt be yelling at you.. just give them the silent treatment for a while, but dont over react and leave your house..
Good luck..
 
unfortunately your parents have accepted the neighbors word as truth.
i would talk to mom and let her know that u r dissapointed in the fact they dont believe u even though it sounds like they should.
dont leave, it is a bad road to start and will only make things worse.
try to find a medium(teacher counselor preacher older bro or sis) to sit in and speak on both parties behalf, good luck
 
It shouldnt matter to your dad because nothing has happened and he shouldnt be treating you like that but thats just how dads are.
I think the best way to get around this is to talk to your mom alone clearly because they dont over react like fathers you know. and maybe she can help you convince him that its not true...
and no it wouldnt be a crime to run away but if you leave with "him" they could charge him for kidnapping you even if he is underage..
hope your problems solve gook luck =)
 
its none of you bf's business
yes your dad is aloud to do what he did
your mom did not do anything wrong forgive her
and for the last question you would be running away
its not illegal but i would advise that you dont run away

what you should really be mad at is that your dad said the "neighbors" said you were having sex
even if you were having sex its none of their business
and finally you should tell your mom that the neighbors were lying

you or your mom should go to the neighbors and tell them to mind their own business
 
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